What about the future?

Lately I've been feeling inspired about everything around me. I'm thinking about future and how scary and amazing it can be at the same time. I'm living that time that we should choose colleges and get into them. I’m living that time when all your family and friends ask you what career you are going to do and which university you are going to go to, but the true is that I don't really know what I want to do. And this gives me a feeling of enormous stress, because I am a person who always has all things planned and for the first time in life I am letting things go and deciding as they go. 

I think of when I was little, had all my adolescence planned, all my dreams ordered and now ten years later nothing has turned out to be what I had planned. I think the problem we have is that we plan things too much, when we are born we have the planned life until approximately 21 years in the sense of studies. I think we really forget the meaning of life, we forget to live and with this I mean for example having a weekend to do things that we like.Unless it's holiday day or summer we can’t do it because we have planned everything we have to do.

 This is simply my opinion, but I am based on a few days ago, some friends made me a surprise for my birthday in which it consisted of going to spend the day in another city, I had all that day planned, it was something different and I sit very well, it helped me to forget for a few moments of all the problems. By this I mean that future isn't just about college and jobs. It's about friendship, love, adventure, opportunities, living at the moment, no regretting things, enjoy every single second because tomorrow we may not be here anymore.

 Future is about now and youth. Enjoy now, because now is the future.

Chechen authorities deny media report on 'mass detentions' of gays

https://www.rt.com/news/383152-chechnya-gay-detentions-report/

This news is about a gay detentions report in Chechnya, a Russian newspaper has reported that "over a hundred men" were recently detained in the Chechen Republic and at least three killed because of their homosexuality. The report on alleged detentions and killings was published on Saturday by Novaya Gazeta.

Citing "a big number" of unnamed sources in the Chechen interior ministry, president's administration, prosecutor's office and the local LGBT community, it said "mass detentions" of men who are gay or are "suspected" of being gay have occurred in Chechnya recently.

But a spokesman for the Chechen leader has denied the reports.

The head of Chechen interior ministry's press service, Magomed Deniev, told RBC media company that he had had no information on any such detentions and suggested the report might have been "an April Fools' joke."

Commenting on the report to RIA Novosti news agency, Karimov said that "men in Chechnya lead a healthy lifestyle, practice sports and have only one [sexual] orientation, defined since humankind creation.

"There are no other orientations in Chechnya," he told RIA, adding that his statement is supported by "high birth rate" in the region.

"If there were such people [gays] in Chechnya, law enforcement would not have any issues with them, because their relatives themselves would be sending them to places, from where no one returns," the official told Interfax.

PERSONAL OPINION

This news is horrible, how can they torture and kill a person just because of their sexual orientation,

And I am sure that the citations of this news are false (By this I mean that people lie and don’t tell the truth) because I have read thousands of news related to this homophobic act and there was enough evidence to see that it was real.

I read that they had men in concentration camps like the Nazis with the Jews, who did not feed them and who were killing them.

And regarding what he says about homosexuality does not exist in his country, this is false, I'm sure it exists, but people should not say it out of fear that they do things like these poor men.

I believe that the authorities have to intervene and stop all this and also make sure that it does not happen again because it’s a crime against humanity.

How I see myself in the future

Every day I think about the future, about my future and I came to the conclusion that I don’t know what I will do in the future.

It's like I have many projects in mind but really now I'm not doing anything to make these projects come true.

Once I finish high school I think I'm going to take a gap year, to work and think about what I want to study . I have a friend who is working in Los Angeles of au pair and she is going very, very well.

Maybe I go one year to work abroad to another country, I think it’s a great opportunity to go to another country to work, and also it’s a unique experience because it helps you with the language and you can meet incredible people. But I'm afraid, because as it is the world you don’t know what kind of family you can find or how they will treat you.

If in the end I don’t leave for a year or a few months to work in another country, surely I will end up going to university, to study what? Something related to companies: business administration or marketing and public relations.

Because in the future I see myself working in a company although I would also like to be able to work as event planner I think it’s a job with a lot of responsibility but very interesting.

And of course in my future plans, I have included living in the United States for a while. So more or less these are the plans I have for my future.

Coachella

                                      

Today I’m going to talk about Coachella (The Coachella Valley Music and Arts Festival) is an annual music and arts festival held at the Empire Polo Club in Indio, California, located in the Inland Empire's Coachella Valley, in the Colorado Desert.

It’s one of the largest, most famous, and most profitable music festivals in the United States and all over the world. The 2016 festival sold 198,000 tickets and grossed $94.2 million.

This year Coachella has been from 14 to 16 and from 21 to 23 April. I really don’t know why they make it last two weekends but I think it's fine because as they are the same performances if you can’t go someday you always have another weekend to go.

Although this year has been a bit improvised because when the tickets came out Beyoncé was part of the performances and then cancelled her performance.

Apart from this, this year from what I have seen in videos has been impressive.

In addition to being a music festival, you could say  that it’s also a style meeting, all the most important models, actors and celebrities go to this festival and show their outfits.

I hope to go in two years, because I think it’s a unique experience and apart from meeting lots of people, you can see your favourite artists. And best of all, they broadcast the live performances on youtube.

The only downside I would put is the price, It’s that is very very expensive.

    

Thirteen reasons why.

Today I'm here to talk about Thristeen reasons why, a new american television series based on the 2007 novel Thirteen Reasons Why by Jay Asher and adapted by Brian Yorkey for Netflix.

It’s about the death of Hannah, a poor girl who for two years has suffered bullying in high school, before dying she records 13 tapes.

"Hello, I'm Hannah Baker, get comfortable, because I'm about to tell you the story of my life, specifically why my life ended, and if you're listening to this recording, you're one of the reasons." That’s the beginning of the first tape. She leaves the 13 tapes to people who have made her decide to commit suicide. Each tape it’s about a different person.

I started 13rw  without any expectation and it has really surprised me. The message that conveys this series is impressive.

It makes you reflect that before saying anything, we have to think about how can this affect in others.

That if we feel bad we have to ask for help and we don’t have to care about the opinion of the others. It’s our life we ​​can do whatever we want.

I think that everyone should see 13rw, both teenagers and older people, because it teaches you how teenagers really are, Is the first series I see, which deals with issues such as bullying, rape, suicide and depressions.

So I highly recommend it because as a personal experience, it has made me reflect a lot on my life, about people around me and especially about my attitude to others. After 13rw,  I’m going to think the things before saying them and try to never disrespect anyone because we are not really aware of the damage we can cause.

Our society

Maybe I’m too young to talk about the world and society, because as many people say I have lived very little to know how things have to go. But I just want to give my point of view and my opinion of our society.

Nowadays we are living in a world that is a completely madness, our society is a madness too. 

We are living in a world where most politicians are corrupt, where there are terrorist attacks almost every day, where the politicians instead of giving money to health, spend money in wars, and where the greatest world powers like USA, Russia and China fight in a competition to see who has greater military and nuclear power. And these things are just an example of thousands of other things that make our world crazy.

But focusing on our society, in the first place we live in a technological society I will not go into details with this, because I already dedicate a post on the blog. But it’s a good example to start telling the truth about our society.

 Secondly, I could put the importance we give to our social reputation. And by this I mean, that for exemple, if I’m poor but has come to the market a new mobil like the iphone 7 or as a new adidas sneakers, even if I’m poor I'm going to spend the little money I have on that. For what? Because I am not going to be less than the others, I have to pretend that I am in the same social rank. In this example I have generalized but it’s clear that not everyone is like this.

Another of the things I hate most about this society is the sexism towards women. Come on guys we are in 2017, you have to mature, and see once and for all that women have the same rights as men.

And finally although we have so many mistakes more I have to highlight, the little value we have to things. We wait with longing months to have a thing and once we have it we take away all the value we had to that thing.

Technology Addition

Today I’m here to talk about Technology addition because I think it’s an issue that effects us all. 

Nowadays see people with their phones everywhere is the most normal but I think we are not doing things right. I’m the first to admit that I'm always on my cell phone, always and that’s not good. 

As a personal experience I have to say that I use the cell phone for everything, from talking to friends to reading books. And many times I wonder, “When I let my life depend on an electronic Device?” of course my life doesn’t depend on the cell phone but it’s a way of expressing this addiction.

I'm sure I'm not the only one who sees that this is getting out of hand, we only have to see children of 7 years, who already have a phone, it’s crazy because they don’t have the need to have one. When I was little me and my friends spent the afternoons in the park playing or playing anywhere but playing. Now children play with game consoles, they are missing experiences and memories of childhood because many of them spend the evenings in front of a screen.

Even when I'm 16 I'm losing things in life because I'm so hooked on tecnologies, this thing is a complete madness. Many times when you stay with your friends even being next to each other we talk on the phone or just hang out with the phone and it’s like you have your friends in front, and you prefer to spend the time in front of a screen than talking with them.

To this kind of things I mean when I talk about the addition to Technology and now I only can think “What are we doing with our lives?”

SKAM

Today I’m here to talk about a new series that I discovered this Christmas. This series is from Norway and It’s called Skam (that in Norwegian means shame), the series focuses on the daily life of teenagers at the at the Hartvig Nissen School in West End Oslo. At first glance it seems to be another stupid series for teenagers but I already tell you that it has nothing similar to the others.

I started to hear about this series in early November on twitter but only a few people talked about it, at the end of November, thousands of people were talking about the series and I’m not kidding, at least more than 25 people told me to see Skam because I wouldn’t regret it.

So I started it on a weekend without any expectation, the result was that I saw the first season and part of the second in three days It was a complete madness, because the series in norwegian so I had to saw it with subtitles in English.

I have to say it's one of the best series I've ever seen, it’s not like the typical ones. It deals with topics such as homophobia, racism and both mental and physical problems. Skam have taught me a lot of things and values.

So I recommend it a lot to everyone

Here I leave some quotes of the series:

"War doesn't start with violence. It starts with misunderstandings and prejudice."

"We live in a society because we need each other. People need people"

"People experience horrible things every day, and they still manage to be nice to others"

“That all people in this world are equal and that no person should be talked about behind their back, violated, jugded or ridiculed"

"So if you hear anybody use religion to legitimise their hate, then don't listen to them, because hate doesn't come from religion, it comes from fear."

Purpose Tour Experience

On november 22 after 6 years being fan of Justin, I was able to attend to his concert in Barcelona. He came with his tour to present his album Purpose.

That day I arrived at the Palau Sant Jordi, at half past eleven, and I was so late because I had standing tickets and means that to be at front rows I should had camped at least two days.

But me and my friend, we had a lot of luck, because some friends of mine. They arrived at eight in the morning and they left us stand beside them in the line.

I remember that once inside we were very surprised because we were pretty close to the stage.

Justin started the concert and immediately I lost the others so I had to spend the concert alone. But that was not a problem because I enjoyed it very much.

When I saw him for the first time, I was in shock, And I'm here writing this and I can not find the words to describe everything I felt, so I can only say that it was magical and unique.

I started the concert in row 12 and end on the 5. And I can only thank God for letting me experience such a magical experience like this, because I think life is, after all, these magic moments that you live.

WHAT IS THE BEST STAGE IN THE LIFE?

We talk about this in class, and I think it's a very interesting subject. In my opinion, the best stage of life is adolescence. Why? So easy because although we have a lot of pressure and responsibility in the high school, we do not have half of worries that adults.

We do not have to pay anything, the light, the house .. Our only responsibility is to study.

Yes, this stage is complicated because we are growing, and our opinions are changing. But I think that according to the adolescence you have will be one type of person or another in life.


So for these reasons I think it is the best stage of life, although I believe childhood is one of the most beautiful stages of all.

Palafrugell trip

As I said in my previous "your-say", this summer me and my friends Laura, Maria, Irina, and Jana.

 We went on a mini vacation, from a week to Palafrugell. And if I have to describe this week with a word, it would be incredible.

Okey, first of all we planned this trip two days before we left, it was all very improvised, Jana was in Platja d’Aro with her family and told us if we wanted to go for a few days, the others, we said yes instantly.

The first day, our plan was to go to the beach, to spend an afternoon of relaxation and we ended up going by boat to Palamos. We bathed in a cove, and it was incredible.

On the second day we went by boat again, this time to S'agaró, we ate there, and in the afternoon we went to a swimming pool in Platja d'Aro where we stayed until the evening.

I will remember that day always, because I stayed half asleep on the boat in the sun and the result was that I burned only a part of the body. I remember one side of the neck red and the other normal.

The following days we went to the beach and stayed on the floor.

If I learned anything on this trip, is that the best things always happen without being planned.

My Summer

This summer has been amazing, I think the best summer I've spent. To begin with, a few days after school ended, with my friends we had a Hawaiian party to celebrate the beginning of summer.

 During these months, I spent the afternoons in the pool of my town with my best friends, those evenings were incredible. And many or all of the weekends, I went to a parties in towns near my own.

 What I liked the most this summer was a little trip that my friends and I made to Platja d'Aro, we stayed in another friend's apartment for a week and it was so fun. I think this summer changed me a lot, now I'm not as shy anymore as I used to be, and I made a lot of new friends that with only  3 or 4 months. They have shown me more than friends that I have of many years ago.

 And as both me and my friends wanted to do that summer,  the best summer. We recorded a lot of videos of the trip and parties and stays, and in August, I made a video with all the videos, so now we can see all the things that we spent together. 

What about my favourite youtuber?

If I had to choose a favourite youtuber, then I would choose Dulceida.  Why?  Because I admire her so much and her job, it’s amazing.  

She started to be famous years ago writing a blog, and then she finally opened an account in youtuber.

In this days she has her youtube account, and every week uploads a new video, then she has Instagram where she works promoting  so many brands, both clothing , makeup and jewelry. 

And thanks to all this, he has opened an online clothing store and has written a book.

Apart from this she works on the divinity fashion show "Quiero Ser". Where she is a fashion advisor.

I think that we believe that she really don’t work or do anything but if you stop to think about all the work she has, it is really amazing that thanks to a blog, She has managed to get where she is. 

Her youtube account is "Dulceida", and her blog is http://www.dulceida.com/